The Family Legacy Giving Guide

A practical guide for families who want to turn charitable giving into a shared tradition, involve the next generation, and create a repeatable process for long-term community impact.

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Created for SITN supporters in partnership with 3D Financial Solutions.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

Executive Summary

For many families, charitable giving starts with good intentions but develops without much structure. A gala table, a school fundraiser, a friend’s campaign, a year-end request, or a crisis can all lead to meaningful gifts. Over time, however, the family may be left with scattered records, inconsistent decision-making, limited tax planning, and little involvement from the next generation.

A donor-advised fund can help turn that pattern into a more deliberate family giving process. The core idea is simple: a family can set aside charitable capital now, receive the applicable charitable receipt, and recommend grants to charities over time. This separates two decisions that are often forced into the same moment: when to contribute and where to give.

That separation can be valuable. A family may wish to contribute during a high-income year, after a liquidity event, or when appreciated public securities can be donated in kind. The grants to charities, however, do not have to be rushed. They can be made gradually, after discussion, research, and reflection.

This is where the structure becomes more than a tax planning tool. Used properly, a donor-advised fund can become a family governance tool. It can create an annual rhythm: review the giving budget, revisit the family’s cause priorities, invite each generation to bring forward a charity, discuss the intended impact, and decide which grants should be recurring and which should be new.

For younger family members, this can be especially useful. Instead of hearing abstract lectures about values, they are asked to evaluate real organizations, explain why a cause matters, consider how much to give, and report back on what happened. The process teaches judgment, stewardship, accountability, and capital allocation.

Where the rules apply, donating eligible appreciated public securities in kind may reduce the taxable capital gain to zero while producing a charitable receipt based on fair market value. In the guide’s Quebec illustration, a $100,000 gift of securities with a $25,000 adjusted cost base produces a materially different after-tax result depending on whether the securities are sold first or donated in kind.

A donor-advised fund is not always the right tool. Direct giving may still be better for small one-time cash gifts, urgent gifts to a known charity, or donations tied to tickets, auctions, sponsorship benefits, or other personal or commercial advantages. Very large or complex family situations may also require comparison with a private foundation.

The main question is not simply whether the family is generous. The question is whether the family’s giving would benefit from a clearer process. For families with recurring charitable commitments, appreciated securities, high-income years, or a desire to involve children or grandchildren, a donor-advised fund may provide foundation-style structure without the administration of a private foundation.

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